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Why Modern, Western Marriage Has Become A Bad Business Decision For Men

http://dontmarry.wordpress.com/

This writing seeks to educate men about the realities of what they may be
getting into when they marry a Western Woman. An informed decision is less
likely to be one that may be regretted later in the marriage. The intent is
not to dissuade men from marrying, but to encourage them to communicate
frankly their concerns and expectations regarding marriage with their
potential spouses. The secondary aim of this essay is to enlighten women to
a few of the reasons why increasingly larger numbers of successful,
eligible, unmarried men, who would otherwise prefer monogamous long-term
relationships, are turning their backs on marriage.

Society typically paints a negative stereotype of men who hesitate, delay,
or elect not to marry.

They are labeled as either:

A) Womanisers who are unable to participate in a long term relationship, or
B) Selfish, childish or irresponsible men who can not take care of
themselves or another person.

No other explanation is ever explored.

The cost of proclaiming your undying love

In University, in professional sports, in politics, in the workplace; women
have the same educational and professional career opportunities as men.
Contrary to commonly believed feminist propaganda, women do indeed get paid
the same salary as men, given that they are willing to work the same types
of jobs as men, and work as many hours as the men do. Despite this reality,
many women come into marriage with very few assets, and often are saddled
with substantial quantities of debt. In general, men are the ones who save
and invest. Don’t believe me? Count the number of women of marrying age that
you know who subscribe to financial services magazines or newspapers. A
significant number of 20-something and 30-something women spend all of their
disposable income on luxury rental apartments, upscale restaurants, frequent
exotic vacations, leased cars, spa treatments, and excessive amounts of
clothing, purses, shoes and accessories. Yet ironically, in the media, men
are the ones who are portrayed as reckless, irresponsible spendthrifts.—

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WHITE AMERICAN MEN ARE CHANGING THEIR SEX IN DROVES

http://groups.google.com/group/microsoft.public.internetexplorer.gene…

Transgender woman says DMV clerk warned of hell
Bob Egelko, Chronicle Staff Writer

San Francisco Chronicle December 9, 2010 06:34 PM
Thursday, December 9, 2010

Read more:
http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2010/12/09/BAGS1GOIC…

(12-09) 18:34 PST SAN FRANCISCO — A few days after Amber Yust visited the
Department of Motor Vehicles in San Francisco to register her sex change
from male to female, she got a letter at home from the DMV employee who had
handled her application.

Homosexual acts, he informed her, were "an abomination that leads to hell."

The same day, Yust said, a DVD arrived from a fundamentalist church warning
of eternal damnation for anyone "possessed by demons" of homosexuality. The
DMV employee’s letter had referred her to the church’s website as a source
of "critical information for your salvation."

What’s more, the DMV had kept the employee on in 2009 even after he refused
to process another transgender woman’s name-change application, Yust said in
a damage claim filed with the state, the precursor to a lawsuit.

Safety fear
"I feel really vulnerable," Yust, a 23-year-old software engineer, said
Thursday. It’s "scary that someone who’s part of a government agency is able
to take my personal information and get in touch with me. I don’t think
anyone could feel safe going to a DMV where they knew someone like that was
working."

Her lawyer, Christopher Dolan, said the DMV "should have fired this guy the
first time, and they left him in a position where he could harm people."

He said disclosing personal information from DMV records violates state
privacy and civil rights laws and can be grounds for criminal prosecution.

DMV spokesman Armando Botello said the department would not comment on the
complaint. He also said the DMV would not disclose whether the employee
still works there or has been the subject of any disciplinary action,
because "it’s a personnel matter."

Yust’s lawyers identified the employee as Thomas Demartini.

No apology
The DMV has not responded to Yust’s complaints, said Kristina Wertz, legal
director of the Transgender Law Center, which is also working on the case.
"They’ve not told us what they’ve done in response to this incident and have
made no effort to apologize," Wertz said.

She said Demartini was also the DMV employee who spurned a transgender
woman’s application to change her name and gender in August 2009 and told
her that "God will send you to hell."

A DMV regional administrator apologized to the woman for the employee’s
"unprofessional and disrespectful behavior" in a letter two weeks later and
promised to use the incident as a "learning experience for all employees."

The Transgender Law Center then held training sessions for San Francisco DMV
employees, focusing on the California law that prohibits discrimination
based on sexual identity, Wertz said. She said the sessions were
well-received and seemed to be effective until Yust’s case came to light.

Biblical passages
Yust had recorded her name and sex change with a court and the Social
Security office in October, then went to the DMV office on Fell Street to
change her driver’s license.

Demartini expressed no objection while processing her application, Yust
said. But she believes he took down her name and address and shared them
with his church.

The letter she received four days later was filled with biblical
condemnations of homosexuality, including the passage in Leviticus that says
two men who have sex "must be put to death," and implored Yust to change her
mind about her sex change.

The letter also referred her to the website of the Most Holy Family
Monastery, whose name was on a parcel that arrived the same day. It
contained the DVD warning of damnation and a grisly leaflet showing hearts
torn from bodies, said Dolan, her lawyer.

Split from Catholics
The church’s website describes it as a Catholic organization that split from
the Roman Catholic Church because of the second Vatican Council’s ecumenical
outreach in the 1960s and considers other faiths to be devil-worshipers.

A woman at church headquarters in New York, who did not give her name, said
Thursday the church does not distribute materials like those Yust received.

Yust filed a damage claim against the DMV this week with a state agency,
which has 45 days to respond. Dolan said Yust would seek damages for
emotional distress and a court order requiring the agency to follow state
privacy laws.

Read more:
http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2010/12/09/BAGS1GOIC…

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Why Modern, Western Marriage Has Become A Bad Business Decision For Men

http://dontmarry.wordpress.com/

This writing seeks to educate men about the realities of what they may be
getting into when they marry a Western Woman. An informed decision is less
likely to be one that may be regretted later in the marriage. The intent is
not to dissuade men from marrying, but to encourage them to communicate
frankly their concerns and expectations regarding marriage with their
potential spouses. The secondary aim of this essay is to enlighten women to
a few of the reasons why increasingly larger numbers of successful,
eligible, unmarried men, who would otherwise prefer monogamous long-term
relationships, are turning their backs on marriage.

Society typically paints a negative stereotype of men who hesitate, delay,
or elect not to marry.

They are labeled as either:

A) Womanisers who are unable to participate in a long term relationship, or
B) Selfish, childish or irresponsible men who can not take care of
themselves or another person.

No other explanation is ever explored.

The cost of proclaiming your undying love

In University, in professional sports, in politics, in the workplace; women
have the same educational and professional career opportunities as men.
Contrary to commonly believed feminist propaganda, women do indeed get paid
the same salary as men, given that they are willing to work the same types
of jobs as men, and work as many hours as the men do. Despite this reality,
many women come into marriage with very few assets, and often are saddled
with substantial quantities of debt. In general, men are the ones who save
and invest. Don’t believe me? Count the number of women of marrying age that
you know who subscribe to financial services magazines or newspapers. A
significant number of 20-something and 30-something women spend all of their
disposable income on luxury rental apartments, upscale restaurants, frequent
exotic vacations, leased cars, spa treatments, and excessive amounts of
clothing, purses, shoes and accessories. Yet ironically, in the media, men
are the ones who are portrayed as reckless, irresponsible spendthrifts.—

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Australia: Women Given License to kill and Gov to Jail Men at Will..

http://whatmenthinkofwomen.blogspot.com/2010/12/australia-women-given…

One thing is guaranteed in Australia and that is if you have any issues with
the opposite sex than not only are you automatically guilty but they will
also throw in a prison sentence just in case. The "Innocent until proven
guilty" assumption has been thrown out the window while feminists in their
usual hypocritical behaviour continually ramp up that attitude but only if a
male is involved. Women can apparently abuse and murder all they like and
would be lucky to receive a prison sentence let alone any punishment..

Female domestic violence – women licensed to kill by Australian courts

Women who kill get soft sentences from feminist-friendly judiciary

Domestic violence: court affirms licence to kill as another “battered
woman“ walks free after execution-style murder of husband—

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Climate Kooks Who Want to Ban Water – and Other Lunatics

http://peacelegacy.org/articles/climate-kooks-who-want-ban-water-and-…

As reported on CFACT, attendees to the United Nations Conference on
Climate Change in Cancun, Mexico were fooled into signing a petition to
ban water.

And, Oh Yes, also to reduce the U.S. GDP by 6%.

I have been asked, do I really think there is something ‘religious’
about all this. And my answer is Yes. But unlike many climate realists,
I do not think this is limited to a few nutty eco-religionists. The
"eco" part of it is just a subset – a big subset right now, for sure,
but just a subset – of a malign influence in human affairs that goes
back at least as far as the French revolution.

The idea, in a nutshell, is that "There must be a group to hate". From
Robespierre to Marx, to Lenin and Stalin, to modern feminism and racial
identity theory, this key, evil idea is resurrected after each failure
and produces a new round of misery and death, but in the resurrection it
comes with a new ‘talking point’. With the fall of the Iron Curtain,
economic and class warfare was exposed for the hateful nonsense it is,
and freedom-loving people insisting on democracy and the right to own
property. So the ‘believers’ quietly ceased talking economics and
concentrated on their other irons in the fire: the evils of the male
half of humanity, and on the evils of whites as compared with everyone
else on Earth. Meanwhile they had dreamed up a new one: evil human
industrial activity harming all the other living creatures.

The first major explosion of the eco-religion was the fallacious, most
likely dishonest, book "Silent Spring", which successfully caused the
banning of DDT and an ensuing estimated 40 million deaths from malaria.
In eco-environmentalism, once again, there is the invitation to hate
someone: the evil industrialist, or ourselves collectively, who live in
western democracies with reasonably decent standards of living. But
instead of inviting us to spread our standard of living and our freedom
to those afflicted with poverty, disease, and totalitarian rulers, the
eco-religion wants to subject us to their levels of general misery.

This absolutely must be understood as an overarching, evil phenomenon
with many tentacles (communism, feminism, racial stereotyping,
eco-suicide, etc.) rather than as an isolated nuttiness amongst fringe
‘green’ groups. This is because soon the absurdity of the AGW scare must
be exposed. Just the same as communism was exposed! But many of us
thought that the end of communism would be the end of suicidal stupidity
by humans as a species. One even wrote a book about the End of History.
Not so! The energies of the believers merely re-routed itself into other
strands of the evil religion. Like the seven-headed, ten-horned Beast of
the Book of Revelation, which suffered a mortal wound and was healed, so
likewise the evil religion appeared to have been killed by the plain
evidence of seventy years of lost life and lost happiness for the
Eastern European peoples. And yet it lives on. The failure of the "grand
experiment" was pushed out of sight and all energies were turned into
racial and gender theorising.

But these two did not bear the fruit expected, and a word about each is
necessary.

Feminism: Frankly, young women, in my experience, just don’t have any
time for the hard, fierce, firebranding of the now-old feminist leaders.
Young women, by and large, know full well that they, not the man, will
come out well ahead in any divorce proceedings in the English-speaking
world or in all of Europe. Women are now much better educated, and male
sexuality is viewed almost as criminal in itself, regardless of any male
expression of it. And yet happiness eludes women in the feminist era,
just as it eluded the proletariat in the time of their very own
‘dictatorship’. It isn’t a sudden crash in the style of the collapse of
communism, but slowly the credibility of the feminist hate movement is
fading.

As for racial theory, this is the one big failure on the scorecard of
the evil religion. "Multiculturalism" was intended to be the theoretical
demarcation separating the in-group (non-whites) from the out-group
(whites); and no doubt many of the true believers still think it is
working out that way. But good people by the millions around the world
have used the idea of multiculturalism for a remarkable purpose: making
friends and uniting people! Here in Toowoomba, the Toowoomba
International Multicultural Association holds Chinese New Year events,
Indian festival events, and a major Languages and Cultures Festival each
year. Friendships, understanding, and enjoyment abound, without a single
white being made to feel guilty, or a single crime of the white race
getting a mention. The original hate purpose of multiculturalism has not
been entirely destroyed – it keeps popping up in school curricula, for
example, as white five-year-olds are made to feel guilty for some
supposed acts ‘they’ committed two hundred years earlier when Captain
Cook first sighted the Australian continent – but the ability of ‘evil’
multiculturalism to make headway has been resoundingly curtailed by the
re-use of the idea by good people doing good things and generating
happiness.

And so another head of the beast had to rear its ugly head – and so we
have eco-environmentalism, which has taken over just about every ‘green’
party and environmental organisation on the planet, and is co-opting the
energies of millions of good people away from doing things that actually
help the environment (helping real live animals, putting CO2 plant food
into the atmosphere) into things that harm both the environment and
humans: destroying western industrial society, restricting injection of
CO2 nutrient into the ecosystem, raising energy prices until people die
of heat or cold (usually cold).

And these fruitcakes don’t even know that dihydrogen monoxide is water!
What more do you need to know to see clearly that their zeal is based on
bad religion, not on good science?

The litmus test for the presence of the evil religion is group-based
hate or guilt-mongering. Purely for being white, a naive child is made
an example of in school, the place he or she should feel safe; merely
for being human, a member of a tool-making, language-using,
idea-generating species unique on Earth, nothing one does is acceptable
except ceasing to act human and going without the results of the tools
and the knowledge human intelligence has created. In
eco-environmentalism the evil religion has created the ultimate hate
movement: all of us hate all of us – or at least we are supposed to!

We have one big advantage this time around: The scam is based on
provably false ‘science’, and therefore we know in advance that it must
eventually collapse. When it does, we must not allow the poison of the
hate religion to regroup somewhere else and start all over again.
Communism was enough. Feminism was enough. Energy poverty and misery for
the poorest and least powerful, whilst destroying the real source of
food for humans and wildlife, this is far, far more than enough. We have
seen the harvest that this terrible group-hate idea brings. Let us root
it out from the human psyche once and for all.

http://peacelegacy.org/articles/climate-kooks-who-want-ban-water-and-…


Ron House
Building Peace: http://peacelegacy.org
Australian Birds: http://wingedhearts.org
Principle of Goodness academic site: http://principleofgoodness.net

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America goes through more prezidents than Australia goes through tourism campaign models

First you had the US President mostly known for what his DICK did!

Then you got the BUSH President.

Now you’ve got a President with brown lips, O BUM.

Who’s next, PRESIDENT BELLYBUTTON?

Herc

Sarcasm is no excuse for lying.

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Alex Jones Calls FBI During Live Broadcast to Report Illegal Activities at Pentagon

Alex Jones responds to "report suspicious activity" at Wal-Mart checkouts:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sX-tZ-m90cA

Contact Information if you would like to submit your own report:

Phone: 1-877-428-5324
Address: P.O. Box 98128 Atlanta, GA, 30359

-

"I see something. I must say something. I want to report a psychotic
Bull Dyke pervert directing the strip search and sexual molestation of
children, women, pregnant mothers, disabled senior citizens, and much worse.

Is it a grinch? A freak of nature?? A power-hungry, insane psychopath???
It walks like John Wayne. It talks like a man, yet it is dressed like a
woman. It refuses to shut borders in Arizona, which is being taken over
by illegal alien cartels, and it’s drugging the children of America. It
is it’s own PR nightmare. And the government has employed it as DHS
director. Is it the offspring of a big foot and a bull?? Is it an
alien??? This thing must be studied at the New World Order underground
laboratories. It calls itself a ‘Janet Napolitano’.

ATTENTION DEPARTMENT OF HOMELAND SECURITY: Protect the American people
form this Bull Dyke creature! Arrest it! Tase it! Do something!! Because
it is destroying the airline industry, the retail industry, our American
way of life, along with the Constitution itself, which is supposed to
protect us . . . and now it wants our brains!!!"

This thing is the stuff that nightmares are made of."

MARK OF THE BEAST
(Paraphrased)

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IMPENDING LEGAL ACTION AGAINST WIN TV

Dear WIN Television,

I refer to my email dated 23 November 2010 to which I have received
no reply.

—–BEGIN EMAIL——

Dear Mr Jones,

are you still representing Win Television?

If so, I would like to refer to my previous court action against WIN
Television in which you stated:

1/ The claim was incomplete and didn’t clearly specify legal cause
of action.
2/ There was no explanation for the delay in proceedings.

As you know I was only released from involuntary treatment last year
so it is possible my claim of defamation is not statute barred.

I submit a copy of the court verdict that also states I was under a
disability at the time of the publication of defamatory matter by
Win News.

As I am considering further legal action against Win Television it is
my right to request evidence that may be crucial to my case.

I would refer you to UCPR 411, 412.

I hope I have addressed your concerns about point 2, but in order to
make an accurate statement of claim and issue court proceedings I
would require a copy of the Rockhampton Win News video from March
8, 2002 on my extortion charge hearing.

If I do not receive satisfactory response within 14 days this matter
will be referred to my legal aid.

Regards

Graham Cooper

——END EMAIL——–

As noted, your 2 previous concerns about my last legal action
against WIN TV which you used to throw my case out of court before
any chance to view the defamatory news video, have now been
addressed.

My legal aid has drafted a new Statement Of Claim which will be
lodged with the courts if no suitable response is received by WIN
TV within 14 days.

——-STATEMENT OF CLAIM (DRAFT)——–

1. On March 8 2002 I faced the Rockhampton Magistrates Court charged
with attempting to extort $100,000 from Australian Skeptics Association
and stalking its executive officer Barry Williams.

2. On the evening of March 8, Win News broadcast a news item about
the case. In that item, the following imputations were made
a) That I am a danger to society
b) That I had made unlawful demands and threats.
c) The I had send a letter by registered mail to Australia Skeptics
saying "Reply or PAY THE consequences"
d) That I had almost immediately thereafter sent another threat.

3. The above imputations were not made as part of a fair report of
the court proceeding.

4. My cause of action is that the publication of the material
containing the above imputations constitutes the tort of defamation.

5. I seek damages for damage to my reputation, and damages in
respect of the income lost as a result of that damage.

6. Notwithstanding the period specified in section 10AA of the
Limitation of Actions Act 1974 (the act) has expired, this action
is permitted by virtue of section 29 of the act because on March 8
2002 I was under a disability.

ANNEXE A – Mental Health Court Order stating I was under a
disability during 2 March 2002, the date of the defamatory news
story, until September 2002, and placed on Involuntary Treatment
Order on July 2003.

ANNEXE B – Court Order stating I was under Involuntary Treatment
Order from September 2002 until court.

ANNEXE C – Queensland Mental Health Department notice of revocation
of my Involuntary Treatment Order on 24 April 2009.

ANNEXE D – The main exhibits of the extortion case reported by WIN
News, 3 of my unrelated documents written weeks apart on different
mediums, of which partial phrases were subsequently spliced together.

ANNEXE E – Application to Australian Skeptics Inc. competition on
December 2001 including my name and address, the same recipient of
the alleged extortion letter.

—————————-

Regards,

Graham Cooper
BInfTech 1991


Yes I know Sylvia, element of surprise, keep the whole 10 years under the carpet charades under the carpet.  Got it!

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Who Says There Aren't Any Good Jobs Out There?

http://michellemalkin.com/2010/12/08/good-jobs/

By Doug Powers

Over 200k just to separate the white males from the rest in order to
contribute to a more colorblind society free from sexual discrimination?
That sounds like a job I could handle – if I wasn’t a white guy.

Sure the salary might seem high, but as you can see, the benefits are far
inferior to those offered in the private sector. Just look at this skimpy
list of bennies:—

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Australia: Women Given License to kill and Gov to Jail Men at Will..

http://whatmenthinkofwomen.blogspot.com/2010/12/australia-women-given…

One thing is guaranteed in Australia and that is if you have any issues with
the opposite sex than not only are you automatically guilty but they will
also throw in a prison sentence just in case. The "Innocent until proven
guilty" assumption has been thrown out the window while feminists in their
usual hypocritical behaviour continually ramp up that attitude but only if a
male is involved. Women can apparently abuse and murder all they like and
would be lucky to receive a prison sentence let alone any punishment..

Female domestic violence – women licensed to kill by Australian courts

Women who kill get soft sentences from feminist-friendly judiciary

Domestic violence: court affirms licence to kill as another “battered
woman“ walks free after execution-style murder of husband—

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